A need to be useful can prompt you to keep your eyes open for opportunities to help others today. If people in your environment approach you for your advice or aid, your initial response will likely be quite enthusiastic. However, your eagerness to be a beneficial force in the lives of people you care about and esteem can interfere with your ability to offer reliable guidance. You can be prepared for this possibility today by reminding yourself that the paths others are meant to follow will likely be quite different from your own. The constructive yet moderate help you provide can guarantee that your protégés prosper on their own terms.
Often, the most constructive form of assistance we can give those in need of help is subtle and gentle guidance. When we provide a figurative beacon that others can follow, we ensure that their experiences are a product of their own motivations, drive, and determination. Rather than carve out the precise paths our protégés walk, we do little more than point them toward the avenues open to them so that they can choose how they will proceed for themselves. Consequently, those who are dependent upon our assistance do not feel that they have been led from one goal to another. They understand and appreciate that they have been allowed to make their own decisions and progress in the manner most suited to their needs. Your support will be most beneficial today when you adopt the role of guide instead of the role of leader.